Bride's Responsibilities

Tradition in many cultures dictates very strong bride’s responsibilities in some areas, but thanks to the passage of time, many of the “rules” of weddings have been relaxed. Everything from the duties of parents of the bride down to what she herself is expected to do at a ceremony is now in a constant state of flux.

The father of brides responsibility list hasn’t budged in a few instances. For example, it is not only tradition for the father of the bride to give away his daughter, it’s also generally expected by her and cherished. He likely will also have to walk her down the aisle. A second dance at many receptions will also be chalked out as one of the father of the bride duties and responsibilities.

Duties of parents of the bride might also, but not always, include paying for the wedding and reception. This is standard tradition, but reality has come into play where the couples themselves now often pitch in along with other family members. Considering the price of weddings and receptions, placing the burden solely on the parents of the bride can be too much to ask.

While father of the bride duties can change, depending on the ceremony and the circumstance, mother of the bride duties tend to remain pretty steadfast. Her role in the ceremony is generally fairly limited; it’s the behind-the-scenes things she gets involved with. The mother, very likely, will be heavily involved in planning, shopping and coordinating for the event and also helping the bridal party get ready for the ceremony.

Duties of parents of the bride might also include helping light the unity candle for the couple. This tradition isn’t involved in all ceremonies, but when it is, they need to be involved.

As for responsibilities for bride and groom, these can vary greatly. Finances, faith and even culture can dictate individual wedding day responsibilities. In many cultures, the biggest responsibility either has on the big day is showing up on time. Both the bride and groom in many areas, however, will be expected to show their appreciation to their attendants through the giving of gifts. These bridesmaid and groomsmen gifts don’t have to be elaborate, but they should be big enough to serve as a token of thanks.

The bride’s responsibilities are not etched in stone, nor are the things her parents need to do, but traditions do offer some great suggestions. From the father-daughter dance to helping plan the big day, there are roles for everyone in the family.